Find your starting step
Film your dog for up to 10 minutes after you leave. Note the first stress sign. Your first practice absence starts below that point.
For dogs who panic when left
Find your dog's starting step out the door, and one rule for when to step back.
A plan-first kit for dogs who panic when left. You get your starting step. You get one rule for when to step up and when to step back. And you get a Cover Plan for the days you have to leave.
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The Step-Back Ladder
The Plan-First Guide: a 26-page PDF kit for dogs who panic when left.
$27USD, one time
- Tonight's plan on page 1
- Your starting step, the Step-Back Rule and the Cover Plan
- Print the pages and fill them in by hand
- 14-day refund, no questions asked
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At checkout you can add the Ladder Toolkit for $17. It's optional. The guide works on its own.
How it works
Three steps, in this order
The order is the method. Each step is a page you fill in.
Cover every absence
The ASPCA's advice: while you train, only leave your dog alone during practice. The Cover Plan gives every trip out a name: who or what covers it.
Climb with one rule
Step up only after a relaxed session. Step back at any stress sign. One card by the door tells you which.
Before you buy
Look, I'll be straight with you
This kit is new. No one has bought it yet, so there are no reviews on this page. I won't make any up.
I'm a dog owner, not a trainer or a vet. I can't promise your dog will be calm by a set date. No honest person can. The ASPCA says “there are no standard timelines.”
What I can show you is what it's built on, and the real pages. Both are below. If the kit isn't what this page says, email me within 14 days and you'll get your money back.
This is for you if
- You have to leave home for work, errands or appointments
- Your dog barks, howls, destroys things or tries to get out when left
- You've already tried toys, the crate, music or calming chews
- You want a plan in writing to follow, and to show a vet or trainer
It's not for
- A puppy who whines for a few minutes in a new crate
- A dog who barks or chews just as much when you're home
- Anyone looking for a promise about how fast it works
Drawn from
Built on published guidance, not my opinion
The guide's steps draw on these sources. Page 24 lists them and marks the few numbers that are the kit's own defaults.
“plan your absences to be shorter than the time it takes for your dog to become upset.”
ASPCA, Separation Anxiety
“In order to overcome panic, we must prevent panic from happening.”
Training tips by Shoshi Parks, CPDT-KA, CSAT, for Arizona Humane Society (PDF)
“training plans that ensure the dog always stays below his/her fear threshold.”
Malena DeMartini, Mission POSSIBLE course page
These groups didn't make, review or endorse this kit. I quote them so you can check the source yourself.
When to call a pro instead
See your vet first to rule out medical causes. If your dog is injuring themselves, trying to escape through windows or doors, or not eating when alone, talk to your vet or a veterinary behaviorist now.
Moderate and severe cases do best with a professional. ASPCA recommends working with a qualified behavior professional (and a vet for any medication). This kit gets you organized and started. For moderate or severe cases, bring it to a certified trainer or a veterinary behaviorist.
What's inside
What you walk away with
Four sections. Do Section A tonight, Section B before your first session, and Section C on every session day.
Page 1
Tonight's plan
Five jobs for tonight. By bedtime, your starting step is in writing and tomorrow is covered.
Page 10
Your starting step
Turn your short film into the length of your first practice absence. You write it down before you start.
Page 16
The Step-Back Rule
One card for the door. Relaxed? Step up. Unsure? Stay. Any stress sign? Step back.
Page 13
Cover Plan, this week
Write a name next to every trip out: who or what covers it, so real life doesn't undo the practice.
Pages 19 to 20
Two-week schedule
Fill in each session as you go, so you can see where you are and what comes next.
Pages 22 to 23
When to get help
Clear signs that it's time for a pro, plus a one-page summary to take to your vet or trainer.
26 pages in all: 6 fill-in worksheets, 5 checklists, 1 film script, 1 rule card, 1 session template and a sources page.
No mockups
Open the actual guide
Real pages from the PDF you download, shown as they are. Tap any page to see it full size.
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Optional add-on at checkout
The Ladder Toolkit, $17
The done-for-you printables that go with the guide. Less setup, more sessions.
- 48 session cards, 6 to a page, to keep by your practice door
- A progress chart with a dot for every session
- A cover contacts list and a four-week cover calendar
- A handover sheet for whoever is with your dog
- Ready-to-send notes for a neighbor or landlord
- Two filled-in example pages to copy (a made-up dog, not a real case)
At checkout, Stripe shows the Ladder Toolkit, $17 as an add-on. Add it if you want it. Skip it if you don't. It's 17 pages, PDF.
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Everything included
One kit, one price
- Tonight's plan, on page 1Included
- Red flags, lookalike check and stress signsIncluded
- Film script and baseline logIncluded
- Your starting step worksheetIncluded
- The Cover Plan and home setup checkIncluded
- The Step-Back Rule card and session templateIncluded
- Pre-departure cue plannerIncluded
- Two-week scheduleIncluded
- When to get help, plus a take-along summaryIncluded
- Sources pageIncluded
- 14-day refund, no questions askedIncluded
- Ladder Toolkit (optional, at checkout)+$17
Today$27
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From the creator
Why I made this
Subject: I'm not a trainer. That's why the sources are on every page.
I'm Paul Michael. I'm not a dog trainer or a vet. I'm just a guy who wanted to help my dog with separation anxiety.
I went looking for help and found it scattered all over the place. I talked to friends. I read posts from other dog owners. They had tried the toys, the crate and the music. Nothing really helped. They were all stuck, like me. One said that, after everything, they still couldn't leave their dog alone for more than half an hour.
The steps that help are already out there, from groups like the ASPCA and from certified trainers. I wanted them in one place, in order, with the plan up front. So I put them on fill-in pages. Page 1 is tonight's plan. Each page says where its steps come from.
Here's how this works as a business, so there are no surprises. The kit is $27. At checkout, you can add the Toolkit for $17. Later, I plan to offer a video walk-through of the worksheets. I also plan to offer help from a certified trainer for harder cases. Neither is for sale yet. You don't need them to use this kit.
— Paul Michael
Questions
Straight answers
Will this make my dog calm when left alone?
No kit can promise that, and I won't. This is a written plan built from published guidance. How your dog does depends on your dog. If the plan isn't what this page says, you get your money back.
How long until my dog can be left alone?
No one can tell you that. Be wary of anyone who gives you a number. ASPCA says “there are no standard timelines.” Published guidance suggests short sessions, 5 to 6 days a week, for up to 30 minutes.
My dog's case feels bad. Is this for me?
Moderate and severe cases do best with a professional. ASPCA recommends working with a qualified behavior professional (and a vet for any medication). Is your dog hurting themselves, trying to get out through a door or window, or not eating when alone? Call your vet or a veterinary behaviorist now. This kit can still help you keep notes to bring with you. It can't tell you how severe your case is.
I work full time. Can I still do this?
That's what the Cover Plan is for. The ASPCA's advice: while you train, only leave your dog alone during practice. It lists ways to cover the rest: a sitter, family, a friend, daycare, or taking your dog to work. The Cover Plan helps you put a name next to each trip out.
What does it cost beyond the $27?
Nothing else is a must. You'll need a phone to film, a second device to watch live, a timer and a pen. A printer helps but isn't a must. The Toolkit is an optional $17 add-on. A vet visit, if you haven't had one about this yet, is its own cost.
Why is it only $27?
It's a PDF kit, not coaching. Nothing ships and no one has to call you. I want it to be easy to try.
How do I get it?
Right after you pay, you land on a page with your download. Stripe also emails you a receipt. Lost the page? Reply to the receipt or email support@backsoondog.com and I'll send the files.
What if it's not for me?
Email within 14 days of buying and you'll get your money back. No questions asked. The refund covers what you bought, the PDFs. It doesn't depend on how your dog behaves. See the refund policy.
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